no, rather if I can talk to somebody or if I am annoying.
when there are groups of people I sometimes have difficulty to join because I assume they are all close friends and I am a stranger who is interfering with their private conversation. actually I think this is true in most cases.

I can do smalltalk. but it almost never gets beyond that. like I said, I sometimes don't know if I can talk to someone again. or if I am being annoying.
men I like usually walk away quickly and prefer talking to someone else. other people are simply not becoming my friends. either we don't meet again or only rarely. I do have some friends but they are not close friends. there is nobody I see very often. they all have other things to do. it's all very superficial.