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Originally Posted by MindfulMoment
I'm sorry that you also don't know what happened. How are you going about learning to be okay with it? I really need some prescriptive guidance. x
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With main T, I have explored the possibilities of what it could mean. Symptoms can be eradicated without fully understanding the actual cause. Sometimes I think it can be the meaning you assign to something that brings it importance.
And I don't mean to minimize any CSA experiences.
It is hard for me to explain, but if you have ever seen HBO's In Treatment, the T Paul on the show counsels a young girl who seems to have all the red flags of abuse. Yet not all is as it seems. Your experience is no less valid if you did NOT experience abuse--lots of other situations can bring you to a similar place.
I wish I had a better illustration.