My partner who is 45 acts like an entitled, narasstic 14 yr old. Not once in 18 yrs has he gone out of his way to make me happy or feel loved. No compliments or I love yous. Just today I told him that I wished for a Pandora bracelet. I asked him if he knew whether I would prefer gold or silver. He couldn't answer me. I have not once worn anything gold. I only wear silver. I struggle with my hate and resentment for him everyday.