Ook, sounded like a metaphor. I am surprised that I gravitated to someone else because I have never done that before! Anyway, my bf and I are working it out he told me how Army guy had an ulterior motive after all as he wanted to get laid with me and now Army guy isn't talking to me on fb. I wonder why! I told my bf is because he didn't get the sex with me? He said yea.

Army guy has been talking about me indirectly on fb about someone he likes/love and that special woman all of that has been about me. I have told him before in the past to love me from afar and you will find someone. He said I am different than the other girls in our old circle of friends as I am the person he fell in love with and we've been friends since high school. I am flattered by his feelings but not happy that he just wanted to get laid and use me.

Yep, old patterns are coming back. I haven't said a word to him on facebook and my bf said if he continues he wants to get a gag order on him for "stalking me." My bf said he had his chance 10 yrs ago and blew it, living in the past, and I am the closet woman to a gf he will ever get even though I am attached. he told me how he was trying to get me to cheat on me and I did ask Army guy are u asking me to cheat?

Well....I hope he moves on and finds someone but I don't see him ever being happy his dates never lasts anyway and yea he does have a bad track record of not keeping women thought this time it would be different.