Thanks for all responses....

For the record....I really have no family....with the exception of one aunt whom I love and an evil stepmother...both of which are at an advanced age and declining health.

You know....we can get a "money back guarantee" on almost everything!!! Even snacks!!!!...but NOT our bodies which are chosen for us by other factors.....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................how cruel & unfair!!!! "We" are the ones who endure and suffer due to his! "

Hmmmm.....very thought provoking!

We can "click and select" basically everything!!!! Homes, vehicles, land, furniture, spouses (lol!)...but NOT our own SELF?

I am going to get deep here......

What if????...Prior to birth...we were given a "catalog" of features which we would desire by say age 25.......I know this is deep......but think about it!...If so..."I" could be happy, no suicidal ideation, content, have self esteem, no anxiety, and no depression!

I stay caught up in the comparison thing....EVERY guy I see...I wish I had his features (thicker hair, more huge muscles, more height-{I am only 6'3"}---what is disheartening is having tried and worked hard to attain these things and yet....I was never able to reach the level of satisfaction for me.......