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Old Oct 17, 2014, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Hellion View Post
I don't see how the person receiving the treatment is responsible for it if they aren't doing anything wrong...I'd say the people treating them that way are fully responsible for their behavior.
I don't mean taking responsibility for the bad treatment - I mean taking responsibility for how they respond - is it right to expect people just to be walked over? I don't think we should play victim and perpetrator, it suggests people are incapable of assertive behaviour or have no right to defend themselves.