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Old Oct 17, 2014, 12:25 PM
ifst5 ifst5 is offline
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Originally Posted by pachyderm View Post
If you lived your whole childhood under the thumb of someone, then when you become an adult you don't necessarily immediately realize that things are really different, and that you actually can make choices that others can not just countermand.
As already said, the OP mentioned nothing about a vulnerable person who isn't capable of defending themselves - for all we know they might not even consider the treatment as serious as those dishing it out. Again i've known people like this - they come from the kind of environments where mocking unfriendly behaviour was common and just the way their family members responded to each other.

I think we need more information to be honest - we're trying to work out this situation from one side of story, what you're saying could be just as correct as what i've suggested.