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Old Oct 17, 2014, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by LifeIsCruel View Post
I battle/struggle/fight daily---literally by the minute....to not end it all....

People say, "That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem."

No!!!!

What if the problems are permanent!!!??? (i.e. I hate myself, my body-cannot change it-I tried...can not accept it,...hair loss, etc.....)

Now what?

My therapist is all about "change your way of thinking"...CBT is so ignorant!!!!
Find some healthy sensory experiences that you can enjoy right now. Take a walk, feel the breeze, pet a dog, have a nice meal, listen to music that you love. Your basic senses are trying to heal you.

The thought that "your problems are permanent" is just a stupid negative thought that keeps coming up because it has a strong emotional content. Everyone has the power to change.

Don't wait for your CBT to figure out how you should get better. Get active. Find what works for others. Keep trying new things. Actively trying new things in itself will help.
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LifeIsCruel
Thanks for this!
LifeIsCruel