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Old Oct 17, 2014, 01:16 PM
NYgirl21 NYgirl21 is offline
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This is a question that could be answered better with a little more details. But, I think if trust is broken there is the chance to rebuild it but you have to have two WILLING partners in order for that to work because if you can not get the trust back then absolutely not, a relationship will not work.

I personally put a lot on trust, honesty and loyalty and if someone lies to me it is very hard to get it back. But, that being said, I am not opposed to working through it with the right person. I was in a serious relationship with someone I saw as my future and was lied to, I was honest and said I needed some time to decide if it was something I could overcome... I decided I could WITH his support and patience. Of course he agreed to be as supportive and patient as I needed, but when push came to shove he coulnd't handle how I pacing my recovery and learning to trust him again, and he wasn't able to support me the way I needed him to in order to get where we once were. Once you dont have the support of the other partner (in my case, the partner that did the wrong) it will never work. I hope that makes sense, goodluck!

There is no love without trust, is what another member told me.
Thanks for this!
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