Hi Life, you know I'd say that we could maybe take that switch theory a little further..........(and I am going somewhere with this!! ).............what if we could click on options for personality traits e.g. being kind, caring, considerate, sensitive..........that sort of thing.........I'm sure those are options lots of people would choose too..........still there's people who've missed out on those kind of things because, hey no switch.
But you.........well you don't need a switch..........you're there already without the help of a switch!!!!
And qualities like those..........well they rely on much more than things like the luck and the draw of genetics, they take something much more...........they are priceless!!!!
So appearance.......whether that's down to genetics or a click of a switch kind of pales in comparison when you consider what you have got which is pretty amazing, maybe??!!!
And you know maybe some of this self depreciation could be down to some of the experiences you've had??? So maybe by working through them, and seeing you (the whole you) as you really are could help????

And hey!! I can't remember you saying you were 6' 3" and you felt it wasn't tall enough (many apologies if you did!!) because that is above average.
Check this out: Average Height - Information on Average Female and Male Height.
Other sites don't vary by that much!!

But back to the most important bit, there is so much more to you than the way you look/don't look.



Alison