I recommend No Longer Lonely : Online Social Community for Adults with MentalIllness My husband and I met there and have been married for almost 10 years. It's for people with mental illnesses, so that secret is already out in the open. Be open, honest, and detailed in your descriptions and make sure to include all those really loveable things about you that might touch just the right person. I know when I did this, I made sure to include that I was a pretty needy person. So, I found someone that didn't mind this so much. It's very important to him to feel needed. We all have our weeknesses, but people are different in which weaknesses they are ok with in another person. I wish you luck!!