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Old Oct 17, 2014, 06:03 PM
Birds of a Feather Birds of a Feather is offline
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Originally Posted by lizardlady View Post
I answered other because I might be touched AND confused. While this sounds like a caring and touching thing to do for people, the more I think about it the more I think I would find it intrusive. I rarely go to cemeteries to remember ones who've died. I prefer to think of them during daily events that remind me of them. If I make a trip to the cemetery it's for a specific reason. I think I would resent someone intruding.

a side comment about the note attached to the rose - call me a cynic, but my first thought would be that the person was trying to push a religious tract on me. I would find that highly offensive.

Thank you for your input! I am able to see both sides to this, so it is a difficult thing to consider. Also, the note would be 100% religion free, as I am not religious and am very sensitive to the fact that different people share different views.