Im sorry you are going through such a rough time.
You know something, you said your former T. didn't know it was you on the phone and yet he was "acting like a jerk on the phone"--- that just goes to show you that it's him that is the problem for sure!!
argh!!
Not you-- it's not your fault-- I hope you know that Erinbear.
Please take care of you.
Erinbear-
mandy