I'm currently on Trazadone. I take Buspar also for anxiety, but it doesn't make me sleepy. I have used Ambien. Xanax did not a thing for me at any time of the day or night.

I find that they all stop working after a while so it helps to switch them up from time to time.

Frankly, the only thing that (I imagine )really works for me is....well is illegal in some states.