Thanks Alison. I definitely agree she needs more help then I can give. She tells me she gets drunk every night, sleeps in till 1.15PM and doesn't eat all day. She is always crying and on the verge of crying when I see her and admits in her words that she is 'messed up.'
Thanks for reassuring me that i am not just being cold here and that it isn't my fault. You have helped me get some perspective on it and i will try and stop taking it personally.