People like to pretend, put on a show, a mask to hide their inner issues. Well, me im not like that. I dont hide my vulnerability, i show im depressive, anxious, irritable, tense..whatever. People notice, pick up signals about you. Peple can read tell if your hiding something, or not being yourself. But also people dont want to know about others problems because its not their business, its not happening to them, not affected. Its easy to criticise, make judgements people and give advice, without knowing understanding their feelings or circumstances.