I used to live in my head when younger, and in retrospect perhaps it was just a way to process a world to which as young man I had limited experience of and understanding.

Do we not all put on a bit of a front of what we would like to be (actually this might just be me)?

Boys of course are quite scary, but they are pretty bewildered and scared of you too, truth be known - give it time, nature will take its course!

Its a good idea to take a regular break from 'head living' to do something nice - you are free and young for heaven's sake!

And another thing - when you live in your head things go round and round so it is good to write them down and get them out of your head so you can move on to something else - diary, letters, emails to best friends - perhaps you already do this.