You need to develop a thick skin with onloine dating. I've been hurt a few times but i shrug it off. The internet makes everything so impersonal that it's easy to take things to heart. If there are good reasons that you have no car, no job and not in school then explain them. I don't have a car because i don't need one ( i would get one if it was make or break with a woman or i needed one for something else), I don't work cos i've got enough money so i don't need to and i'm not in school. Well i am 58 so i would have had to have been held back ( is that what you say in the US) a hell of a lot. haha. . Put a positive spin on everything and feel good about yourself. Women pick up on that even if you have no car and no job. I've got a lot going for me and you probably have too. Feel good about yourself and people will want to know you. And you're only 24. Start thinking positively.