Hi Dana, and WELCOME! My condolences on the loss of your Grandmother. Good events coincide with bad events all of the time; I wish we could change that reality, but we can't. If we waited to do anything postitive until everyone was happy, (as if we could even control such a thing), no positive would ever happen. How come, specifically, are you feeling guilty. I don't want to devalue your feelings, because they are what they are. Talk more to us, ok? Warmest regards. :-)