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alexandra_k said:

well that depends on whether you go with theory number one or theory number two of negative transference. according to the first that is precisely what it means. according to the second, not so...

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Yea, I'm going with #2. Basically I think that as long as transference is being worked through, even at a slow pace, it is functional, no matter what emotions or patterns you are transferring. I mean, so what if my transference is halting my ability to live? It's not halting therapy, so it must be good, right? haha