I say its not my problem if others dont like me feeling depressed or anxious. They dont get what im going through so i dont need to know what they think of me. People don't want to suffer with depression, they just do and it does lead people to end their life sometimes. So it should be taken seriously as an illness, not some plain fault or weakness of character of someone. People need to show care and respect to others who are having a difficult time coping with their circumstances, rather than criticise or put more stress on them, make them feel worse. You can be positive but still be affected by illness. Not being positive is part of depression too. Its rly hard to see positivity when depression is severe.