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Originally Posted by oceansoftime
My partner who is 45 acts like an entitled, narasstic 14 yr old. Not once in 18 yrs has he gone out of his way to make me happy or feel loved. No compliments or I love yous. Just today I told him that I wished for a Pandora bracelet. I asked him if he knew whether I would prefer gold or silver. He couldn't answer me. I have not once worn anything gold. I only wear silver. I struggle with my hate and resentment for him everyday.
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Wow, sorry to hear that! Have you ever thought of leaving him? Is he aware of how you feel? It sounds like you need to have a serious talk with him! Some men are just clueless in general though. Just tell him that you'd like that bracelet in gold directly
Some men don't understand anything that we tell them unless we happen to be clear and direct about things. I know the feeling at times. It can be very frustrating to deal with. Does he show love for you by doing things for you at all? Some men like my husband have trouble expressing their feelings.