Sadly we tried marriage counseling.....and nothing came of it. I feel like he has shut down from everyone and everything. Its so sad and I think that's what irks me the most and why I have this feeling towards him...cause he has given up on everything. He goes to th VA but only for his pills...and not ones to treat ptsd. And that's the messed up part is that they hand them out like candy and a lot of vets don't get the proper treatment. He has no ambition. I hate feeling this way towards him. I married him for a reason. Not to throw it all away