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Originally Posted by Unwanted Partner
I’m trying so hard to deal with the reality of a sexless marriage & my wife’s obsession with erotic fan fiction. We planned to have some time around a bonfire last night, with the agreement that no phones or net devices would be there. After an hour or so the discussion became more serious, she went into the house & spend two hours online, doing what she does. How do you not take that personally?
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I would take it
very personally. I don't know your story, but I have been married for 22 years and we have had a lot of ups and downs including separating a few years back. I think marriage is like that for everyone and a lot of hard work. We worked it out together because we genuinely wanted to stay together and our relationship is better in every way now. Have you asked her to go see a therapist or counselor together?