"Now he's letting you know he does not plan to change. You are not going to argue him into being what you want him to be"

This is GENIUS!! It is a line that struck me...I am arguing...and it will not change him...At 51, his personality is formed....

I know I am better than this and deserve better. Mocking my Date rape, my neuro disorder, my depression, telling me "I cannot help it if you are insecure about Female T"....I have Body DYsmorphia...and I truly like a lot of the qualities I have...i am not insecure of his female friend(but stating this to me does not help my depression).....And to LAUGH AT me...shows his lack of integrity and I happen to value integrity..

I appreciate everyone's input.