Have you heard of "time-in"? I wish I could explain it better than this, but basically you have the child sit beside you on the sofa or maybe a chair for you and a chair for her side by side. If she won't stay you can hold her in time-in. It is generally recommended over time-out for traumatized children. I am going to google and try to get a better explanation for you. If the therapist has worked with other troubled children she should have knowledge of time-in. Hugs to you, you need some easier days