I don't know if I've ever felt like I've loved anyone. I mean I care for everyone even cruel people. I don't want anyone to be hurt or sad but I never get that "I'm happy to be around this person" feeling. and it's really a problem because I am married and now his 12 year old daughter is living with us. and I just don't want to try. and I have to do so much. I think if I had that love for them it would motivate me but right now all I'm doing is out of obligation and I don't know how long I can keep it up.
is there a a trick to getting that feeling? any suggestions?