You guys are so right about online dating. I have done it before too, and it's like you say, for me, being a guy, you get no action.

And, sometimes when I view some girl's profile I think to myself, like why is this girl even on here? She will say she is athletic, goes out a lot, plays lots of sports, has even a career with her own house/place to stay. You look at her photo and she is so unbelievably hot. Then I think to myself, are you telling me this girl can't get a boyfriend? She is such a huge "catch" as people would say. It really makes one think, like why is she on here? Does it say something about her personality then? It is at that point I rather turn away from her profile because I just can't figure her out, and with my self-esteem issues I feel I'm not even in her league, so I won't even attempt to message her.

I went on an international dating site too, where you can meet girls from all over the world. One day into it, I get a message from a Ukrainian girl. But, first to read the message, you need to subscribe - a $150 later () I can finally read what she is saying. We begin to chat, and two days later she wants me to come to the Ukraine, and marry her! She has supposedly fallen so deeply in love with me (my photos) and how "great and romantic a guy I am in my messages" that she is saying stuff like we are going to have children together and live together and who knows what. I knew something was up. I looked at her photos, I mean she was hot, I mean smoking hot. There's no ways a girl like that would go for me. She looks like one of those hot girls that pull a disgusted face whenever I look at them in the mall . So, she invites me to this chat session with her (a few dollars later too ) and she is real, in the flesh, no fake photos or anything. But, I can tell, she doesn't understand one word I'm saying. Despite the profile info, she speaks or writes no English whatsoever. I've been talking to a damn interpreter/translator the whole time! Who knows who she (or he , uggghh!) is! I felt such a fool. I immediately made up a story as to why we can't chat anymore and I left the site. So guys, I would say, be very careful, some of these girls on these sites are there as part of some agency trying to make money out of dating. My experience has been that online dating sites are no more than money-making rackets, much like everything else in life today.

So, the best way to meet someone - the good old fashioned way, like our parents and grandparents did - just go out and meet them.