I was dating a guy from a different country for a year. He has four children with three different women and is divorced. He has always been up front and honest about his past. I have no children but want one and have never been married. I have been very worried about his past. Wondering if it means he is untrust worthy. My family are all very concerned as they know about his past. I keep pushing him away and then really missing him. He recently took a job in a different country and wises to keep the relationship going. I have told him that I can't put my life on hold as he is gone for at least six months. He tells me he loves me and wants us to have a future. I have difficulty imagining that future. I am mad about him and miss him lots but I feel stressed about the relationship and feel under pressure from family to find some one less complicated. He has always treated me well and was very loving. We are different people, I'm easy going and a person pleaser and he is quiet domineering in his manner. I don't know what to really think about him. I think he is wonderful but maybe he is too much to handle. I know he is hurting over this but so am I. I am finding it real hard to let him go.