I have 3 kids , 19 years old boy who is getting ready to join the military because my husband is forcing him to join .
My 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son . They are doing great in school so I can see why they don't want to move and we just moved 2 years ago .

I thought I could wait until my youngest son finishes school but we have been fighting so much that I don't think I can wait 4 years .
I wish my husband could understand what I am going threw but he doesn't yet he belittles me when I say or do something wrong .

We have been married 20 years came close to leaving him 2 years into the marriage , I really want to go but deep down I know I can't and I think he knows that and uses that to is advantage .