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Direction said:
I guess I have a different take on the married man's wife...

She needs too know. Not to cause undue pain to her - rather be informed - she may also want to have herself tested. Who knows who else this "man" has slept with...

I don't think it should be you - he needs to come clean with his wife. You could always tell him that if he doesn't come clean with her that you will - set a deadline.

Whether he actually tells her or not will be hard to say. Hopefully you won't have to step in - in an anonymous way...

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<font color="purple">Let me try this again...got booted.....

I agree with Direction, the wife should know that her husband is having sex with someone other than her b/c her health and maybe her life may be at risk!

Pearly, get out of this relationship now.... He is in it for himself and doesn't care about you, only that you boost his ego.... Change your screen names or block him, change your numbers or block him, do not accept any emails/snail mail, calls from this man.... I know just how easy it is to allow yourslef to get sucked back in to the fantasy of an affair and it isnt healthy for you..... But I think you already have answered those questions for yourself and know that the only healthy option you have is to end it right now! </font>