We have moved 8 times over the course of our 20 year marriage , before I met my husband I moved a few times , I don't like staying in one place very long . I'm more like a river then a pond .

When I met my husband I told him to see if he can have his job relocate to another state that I wanted to live badly But this boss wanted him here so we stayed . I have not let go of the dream to move there but it feel like it's never going to happen . Now that my husband feels the company is going to go under within a few months he's been looking for a job .
I told him this is our chance to move there and he is dragging his feet about it knowing how long I have been wishing and hoping .
We moved 8 times in the same state sorry that is not going to cut it .

My husband degrades all of us at how smart he is and how dumb we are ...
If my oldest son dose not want to join the military he has to move out . My son and I looked and he saw a few places but he dose not make enough money to get a nice place to live , personally I think he is picky and spoiled and expects his place to look great .

I do think he needs the millitery he's a smart boy but lazy as hell and needs a good kick in the *** . He may hate us now but thank us later with an education , better paying
job . Then just working 9-5 and playing video games all night long .
My husband wants all of my kids to join the millitery , they can pick a career of there choice . Air Force seems to be the best pick .

The reason why I want to wait until my youngest is done HS is because we would have money saved up. My husband would not go to counseling because he feels he is right about everything . I think with the stress with work as always he puts his anger on me and the kids .

I know my marriage is not healthy and it's making me worse and I am glad I am able to get meds. and see my doc. because my husband has good insurence .