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Originally Posted by Moth-fly
Almost. Almost. Friday.
Success vs. Happiness is a pretty common thing to struggle with during adolescence. It naturally follows that parents want their children to succeed, a major problem being that some parents have high standards that their child isn't reaching. That sorta' thing; in my case, my reaction is over-the-top and aggressive.
I call it an archetype because you see the idea perpetuated throughout generations, but I suppose the term blurs the lines between reality and fiction a little too much. :P
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Tell me again how old you are?
I know many adults who could not articulate what you just have regarding your situation, much less in such an intelligent manner.
I've survived raising two teenagers who have grown into wonderful adults, though when my daughter (who is turning 30 this month, btw) was 17 I once asked her, "who are you, and what have you done with my daughter?". That being said, I always thought it was more important that my children set their own standards for success vs. happiness and then follow their hearts. I tried not to be overbearing and sometimes I worry that I didn't say or do enough, but my kids also know that if they ever need me, not matter what, I am there for them, even when they royally screw up, though there's no guarantee I won't kick their *** because of it.
So perhaps some of your anger may be justified? Hmmmm?
I do not, however, advise - no matter how badly you want to - that you do rude things to walls with eating utensils.
I hope your appointment went well today.
WW