When we have limited contact with someone, it is easy to imagine that the person has all kinds of good qualities that we like. Do you really believe that you know this guy real well? My suspicion is that there are some features of his character that you would not find too charming, if he were nearby and you two spend a lot more time together. I think that's what the 3 mothers of his children experienced . . . . a guy who seemed all that, until they got to know him better and then . . . not so much.

Do you think this guy takes fatherhood all that seriously? Is this really who you would pick out to be a father to your child?

He doesn't seem to be having as hard a time to let you go, as you are having letting him go. He's not sticking around to pursue you. Sounds to me like he moves from partner to partner pretty easily. His interest in you may be more superficial than you want to believe. While, he is over in this other country where his job is, do you think he is going to be faithful to you and not seek out other women? These are not questions for you to answer to me, just in your own mind . . . . some things to think about.