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Originally Posted by danabelle
Lately, I've been feeling threatened by a classmate of his who I had a problem with last semester. Now, somehow they ended up in the same class again. I had asked him in the beginning if had any friends in the class, etc. He disregarded to mention that she was there. Right now, I'm tempted to ask him, calmly, if there's anyway he can avoid talking to her.
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I can relate, as I am very insecure as well.
While your impulse is to speak up and ask your bf about this other girl, I think that your Wise Mind is speaking up & trying to get you out of that dangerous mindset. If you haven't talked with your bf previously about your tendency to Q his devotion to you, maybe you could very lightly touch upon this subject... to simply explain th "vibes" that he's probably sensing from you.
1.) Explain that your self-esteem is a bit low (in case he hasn't already noticed
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2.) Admit that you sometimes Q your spot on his list of importance and devotion
3.) Apologize for being a pain in the rump & assure him that you are working on overcoming these negative personality tendencies ~ it just takes time. Ca the two of you exchange special hugs or words once a day for extra reassurance?
Just some ideas. Very best wishes to you both!
