If they were truly trying to be altruistic, I would hope I would be big enough to try to understand and be appreciative for the sentiment; however, at the same time, I would very much feel intruded upon and it would feel creepy as mentioned above. It is such a personal time and an invasion of privacy.
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I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it. -M.Angelou
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. -Anaïs Nin.
It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
-Dalai Lama XIV
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