almedafan, it seems that often you are the one who brings up graduation and boundaries in your therapy sessions. Maybe your T is just following your lead and discussing topics that are important to you, that you need to work on. If you present other topics for discussion, maybe he will follow your lead. It is up to you to choose the topic(s) for your session. If he insists on bringing up graduation, can you try saying, "I'd rather not talk about that topic again this session, I have other issues I'd like to work on today." (e.g. your issues surrounding your husband)