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Old May 07, 2007, 03:23 PM
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SecretGarden said:
Males.... anything significant there...? Sometimes we pick mates that are like our dads...

Maybe a transference thing going on.

Tell him what you are feeling and experiencing.

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He is acting just like the two of them right now. He is just as distant or so it appears. The last words he said last week to me were 'don't obsess' meaning after the session. I wasn't obsessing at the moment. Although we had our debate over whether or not I know him.

All I said this time was 'I know enough' and this lead to the words graduation and boundaries...The context was I can't know anything about him until I graduate...then he'll tell me. Then what? I never see him again?
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