I've been on the heavy side all my adult life, and never had a problem attracting men. I got tired of the games and emotional immaturity. One day I decided to make a mental list of traits I want and traits I don't want in a man. If you know or feel upon meeting someone that something isn't right, you need to make it plain that you are not interested. This is not being mean, this is taking care of yourself and avoiding trouble or heartache. You will find the right man for you if you are patient. Just don't settle for less than what you know you deserve!