Thank you for the link.
It is actually a very good article and I am actually will incorporate some of the things I am not already doing. Life has become much more bearable when I realized that some things just happen and have nothing to do with me, that if I do the best I can do in the situation...I can just sleep well and not to rumminate endlessly.... and instead using the time productivelly and/or more enjoyably.
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Stop Forecasting. Mentally strong people — as tough as they are — know that there is one thing they cannot do. They cannot predict the future. And they don’t waste any time thinking about, anticipating, or foretelling the future. Because they know the action is right here, right now, and the future is not now. But they also know that when their mind is in the future, it’s not in the now, and they are likely to miss critical details and make mistakes — simply because they were distracted by what could happen as instead of focusing on what is happening.
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Yeah, I need to do this. Future is one of the things I rumminate about. Way too much for my own good, sometimes it does not let me to enjoy the moment.
Hellion, I don't see where the article implied you are weak... if you let go all the anger (you seem to project that often to words like this), you might actually find ideas that you might wanna incorporate into your world-view. Believe me, it can make life ever so much easier.
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