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Originally Posted by shezbut
I can relate, as I am very insecure as well.
While your impulse is to speak up and ask your bf about this other girl, I think that your Wise Mind is speaking up & trying to get you out of that dangerous mindset. If you haven't talked with your bf previously about your tendency to Q his devotion to you, maybe you could very lightly touch upon this subject... to simply explain th "vibes" that he's probably sensing from you.
1.) Explain that your self-esteem is a bit low (in case he hasn't already noticed  )
2.) Admit that you sometimes Q your spot on his list of importance and devotion
3.) Apologize for being a pain in the rump & assure him that you are working on overcoming these negative personality tendencies ~ it just takes time. Ca the two of you exchange special hugs or words once a day for extra reassurance?
Just some ideas. Very best wishes to you both! 
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Thank you so much! I've been trying and practicing how to tone down my abruptness. But this really, really helps. Thank you again <3