My problem has been, which voice in my head do i listen to? On the one hand, on the other hand, on the OTHER other hand...! Which decisions get support from the people around you, and what are THEIR motivations? Are they in your best interest, or in THEIR best interest? If you do what's in your best interest, you're killing your mother. Yeah, that's empowering. Thats not just me, that was in the nytimes recently, a new comedienne they are calling "Latina Fey" (is that great or what?) with a new tv show.

Anyway, just saying, choosing a new path is hard. Or maybe, choosing is easy - actually travelling it is hard. But it gets easier the further down the fork you go?