I guess I just haven't found an off switch that allows me to not be effected by nasty things like people being jerks...I do not choose for things like that to bother me like the article suggests they just do regardless of what I choose. Also I have anxiety, its not like I can just up and not think about the future at all if I am anxious about something to come or that pesky feeling of impending doom is getting to me. Also I have mental health issues making hard to let go of the past, again I can't just turn a switch and make it go away or not have effected me.

I guess main part that irritates me as it implies people have the ability to just up and stop having issues that might make them struggle with some of the listed things. And weak is the opposite of tough so yeah it seems they are suggesting people who cannot implement what the article says are mentally weak rather than mentally tough....so seems to be rubbing it in peoples face.