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Old Oct 21, 2014, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted by zinco14532323 View Post
Your feeling are certainly valid. You feel how you feel. I was trying to address your statements- "I need to be perfect". "I need to be the best". Maybe you can challenge those beliefs. I think we all want to be successful and admired and still be humble. I have a choice in defining what success means for me.

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It's very hard for me to challenge those beliefs. I am not satisfied with who I am, I am genuinely not satisfied. I need to be more than I already am to be happy with myself. This means having a successful life with beautiful looks and also a loving man. I also want to start being pleased with my personality but I hate it.