I don't think you're awful. You're just self-aware. You don't have to be something you're not for your daughter. If she wants to be girly, she'll discover that and if you just accept her, that's great, I think. Maybe she'll be a tomboy. Seems a lot of us around. Lots of girls like sports and quite a few boys don't. I know you're expressing your fears, but not everyone fits the general trend.