His kind of behavior -- trying to make you anxious and jealous, giving you the cold shoulder, b.s. excuses, not to mention the reactivated dating profile -- only gets worse over time. It's not the kind of early relationship bumps that sort themselves out over time.

He's not the right guy, no matter how charming and perfect for you he may seem on the surface.

I hope you will find a way to put an end to this before Thanksgiving when you're both back in NYC. He's definitely bad news.