If you have zero sex drive, have had zero for years now and cannot stand anyone touching you, what kind of fooling around with your manager can you possibly be getting up to?


Emotional affairs hurt too, but I'm sure a marriage has better chance of surviving one of those as opposed to a sexual affair...



Just curious and confused, I don't mean to pry:0


You're not bad at being human or soul less, you wouldn't be posting if you were.


I think you've gotten some good suggestions, self-care and learning to love yourself again, may just be what you need in order to engage with your family once again.