doesn't work? I guess one would say "help yourself." Usually a blanket answer I guess. Not like someone can say anything against it. You are responsible for yourself. You should help yourself. Though if it just feels like a merry-go-round what is the point. You know you're going to do the same things over and over again. Help is futile because it always ends up the same. At least for me.

Then at one point the ride ends and you get off.