Hey Hotice, I would say life is so unpredictable anyway, what prevents you from dying before her for example? There's no way to tell, so you might as well go all out and do what you want to do, then if death comes, then so be it, at least you had what you wanted. You guys love each other and that is so special in itself. There are normal people who get married who don't even love each other. You will have a great marriage at least.

Ask yourself this - which do you think will last longer - a great marriage like you guys will have or a normal marriage like you see outside in the street everyday or in the shops. Most of these so-called normal marriages between normal people end up in divorce ten years later, with two or three kids who can only see their dad once a week if he decided not to run away or is not sitting in jail.

Normal is such a farse, nothing but a cloak to hide shortcomings in people. I am willing to bet a million dollars that you will have a happier marriage than 90% of people you see around you. Time is irrelevant, you get more out of one year with your wife than another man will being 10 years with his wife. I hope what I am saying is not too confusing .

All the best, I think you should go for it .