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Old Oct 23, 2014, 01:32 AM
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It sounds like she suspects that you are censoring yourself and trying to be the "good client." Presenting a "false" self that you think she wants to see. Most ruptures trace to disagreements that are not voiced, so she could be trying to strengthen the alliance by letting you experience that disagreements can be talked about without the sky falling and the relationship ending. To experience her acceptance of your true self, even if you have disagreements.
Thanks for this!
Bill3, Middlemarcher